Dr. Surabhi Mathur provides psychosexual consultations for individuals and couples at her clinic in Nirman Nagar, Jaipur.
Understanding Sexual Problems
Psychosexual problems include erectile difficulties, premature or delayed ejaculation, low sexual desire, pain or anxiety around intercourse, and distress caused by myths about sexual health. They affect both men and women.
Physical health conditions such as diabetes, high blood pressure and hormonal problems can contribute, and are checked as part of the assessment. Very often, performance anxiety, depression or relationship issues play a large role.
Common signs and symptoms
- Difficulty getting or keeping an erection
- Ejaculating too early or with difficulty
- Low or absent interest in sex
- Anxiety or fear about sexual performance
- Pain or discomfort during intercourse
- Worry about night emissions, masturbation or other common myths
- Sexual side effects from medicines
Causes and risk factors
- Performance anxiety and stress
- Depression, anxiety disorders or low self-esteem
- Relationship conflict or communication problems
- Diabetes, blood pressure, hormonal or other medical conditions
- Alcohol, smoking or substance use
- Side effects of some medicines
When should you see a psychiatrist?
Consider booking an appointment if these difficulties have lasted more than two weeks, keep coming back, or are affecting your work, studies, relationships or daily routine. You do not need to wait until things feel unbearable; early treatment is usually shorter and more effective.
If you or someone you know is in crisis or having thoughts of self-harm, go to the nearest emergency department or call Tele-MANAS, the Government of India’s free 24×7 mental health helpline, on 14416.
How Dr. Surabhi Mathur makes a diagnosis
Your first consultation is an unhurried conversation about your symptoms, how long they have been present, your medical and family history, sleep, stress and any substance use. Where needed, Dr. Mathur uses standard rating scales and may suggest blood tests to rule out physical causes such as thyroid or vitamin problems. You leave with a clear explanation of what is happening and a treatment plan you have agreed to.
What to expect at your first visitTreatment options
Confidential assessment
A respectful, private discussion of the problem, medical history and relationship context.
Sex education and counselling
Correcting myths and reducing anxiety, which alone resolves many concerns.
Behavioural techniques
Proven exercises for premature ejaculation and performance anxiety, done individually or as a couple.
Medication when appropriate
Safe, evidence-based medicines for erectile difficulties or premature ejaculation, after checking your physical health.
Couples therapy
Improving communication and intimacy when the relationship is part of the picture.
How long does treatment take?
Many psychosexual problems improve within a few weeks to a few months of counselling and targeted treatment, especially when anxiety is the main factor.
Why choose Dr. Surabhi Mathur in Jaipur?
- MBBS, MD (Psychiatry), Consultant Psychiatrist at Narayana Hospital
- Trained in psychotherapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Plans that combine therapy, medication and lifestyle care
- Strictly confidential, non-judgmental consultations
- Clinic in Nirman Nagar, open seven days a week
- Hospital care at Narayana Hospital when it is needed

